Post by olskoolrodder on Mar 30, 2012 6:50:39 GMT -5
OFTEN (but not always),that sounds like mine...though where I left (with the kids,BTW) and moved in with Cindy last Summer (because I'd been looking for perfect timing,and the kids wanted to as well...when the house burned it seemed a sign),things are better than they were most day...at least we now take time to spend together just enjoying one aother's company.
She does get that way though,but (I already had a purdy good idear) now that I know-and more importantly SHE knows-I could just as easily find someone else who appreciates what she was crapping on...LOL! When all else fails and she pulls that "you're job is everything to dowith the house and kids",I pull my haf of the income into a seperate account I keep open (my half is still the larger half of it too,BTW) and only pay 1/2 of thr have-to's,leaving her with a nice round figure of $0 after paying her half (and have made sure she knows that "If you refuse to pay your half-not saying if you're trying and can't-than I'll ave to move someone else in in your place who will",LOL! Usually it takes one week (if that) of her being broke while watching the kids and I have spending moneys to cure it...I mean,like I said,I pay my half,I don't mind dong it (it's what it's there for) even though it kills 90% of any $ I have left over,but I'm not going to PAY half,and do ALL of it,ya know?
Don't let it get you down,my friend. I won't advise you what to do (nor could I,what works here might destroy there,for example),we is your support group and don't mind a little ranting on our shoulders,my friend
Today-off to the used-to-be-local-HS to pick up a layaway,teeheehee ;D ;D ;D Normally,I make one as I pick one up,but not this time. I'll be needing a bit of $ this month to repair a faulty headset on one bike (that shouldn't have worn out in under 30 miles...it may need adjustment,I don't have headset tools,so...),and make some honest to goodnss reairs to a brand new bike that has yet to have a whole mile on it...doesn't bode well for it's review on my blog,I tells you. PLUS,Moebius should be releasing that '55 Chrysler 300 this month,and I need at least 2,one stock,on Kustom (as if I've actually been building this year,hahaha! )
She does get that way though,but (I already had a purdy good idear) now that I know-and more importantly SHE knows-I could just as easily find someone else who appreciates what she was crapping on...LOL! When all else fails and she pulls that "you're job is everything to dowith the house and kids",I pull my haf of the income into a seperate account I keep open (my half is still the larger half of it too,BTW) and only pay 1/2 of thr have-to's,leaving her with a nice round figure of $0 after paying her half (and have made sure she knows that "If you refuse to pay your half-not saying if you're trying and can't-than I'll ave to move someone else in in your place who will",LOL! Usually it takes one week (if that) of her being broke while watching the kids and I have spending moneys to cure it...I mean,like I said,I pay my half,I don't mind dong it (it's what it's there for) even though it kills 90% of any $ I have left over,but I'm not going to PAY half,and do ALL of it,ya know?
Don't let it get you down,my friend. I won't advise you what to do (nor could I,what works here might destroy there,for example),we is your support group and don't mind a little ranting on our shoulders,my friend
Today-off to the used-to-be-local-HS to pick up a layaway,teeheehee ;D ;D ;D Normally,I make one as I pick one up,but not this time. I'll be needing a bit of $ this month to repair a faulty headset on one bike (that shouldn't have worn out in under 30 miles...it may need adjustment,I don't have headset tools,so...),and make some honest to goodnss reairs to a brand new bike that has yet to have a whole mile on it...doesn't bode well for it's review on my blog,I tells you. PLUS,Moebius should be releasing that '55 Chrysler 300 this month,and I need at least 2,one stock,on Kustom (as if I've actually been building this year,hahaha! )